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Why do we have different reactions to being helped?
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Expert Answer
Receiving help varies due to: independence values, self-esteem (low self-esteem makes help feel threatening), reciprocity norms (wanting to return favors), cultural background, attachment style, and the helper's manner. Some feel grateful; others feel indebted, weak, or suspicious.
Key Insight
Receiving help varies due to: independence values, self-esteem (low self-esteem makes help feel threatening), reciprocity norms (wanting to return favors), cultural background, attachment style, and the helper's manner.
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