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Why do we have different reactions to being understood?
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Expert Answer
Response to feeling understood varies due to: how rare it feels (chronically misunderstood people may feel overwhelmed when finally understood), attachment style, self-esteem, cultural background, and whether being understood feels safe (for some, being known feels vulnerable). Being understood is a core human need.
Key Insight
Response to feeling understood varies due to: how rare it feels (chronically misunderstood people may feel overwhelmed when finally understood), attachment style, self-esteem, cultural background, and whether being understood feels safe (for some, being known feels vulnerable).
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